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"How did I not know that in the first place? She probably mentioned it before, it her brother. I screwed this up. I going to screw this up. I screw everything up."

I didn see it as being pride or resentment canada goose outlet locations in toronto at all. It just that anxiety tends to make it look like someone being self centered when, believe it or not, they actually upset because they think they let other people down.

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That all said, he has maybe a day or so max to stop being quite so upset and talking to OP about it.

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To the point, you're fighting for a man who said that he wasn't attracted to her for the romantic relationship he originally wanted.

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I think you show them and stop trying to tell them. Stop seeking their validation, it's hard but in the end this is your life. If you do med school and hate it, it's your life you've wasted not theirs.

I get that there's a status thing your parents have going on if this is such a big deal to them, but they're being terrible parents to not want to see you happy first.

It's not like you're dropping out of school to sit on your arse after all. Just. live your best life. Either they'll recognise this is right for you or they won't, but both of those choices are on them

, not you

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You completely right. It just such a juxtaposition, which is why I think I am so confused. I absolutely canada goose outlet vip not going back to him, even if he begs at my door. But I don understand how someone who was so loving, selfless, rational, intelligent, and kind can also do something like that? Twice? We were the relationship that everyone was jealous of, people would always say that they always wanted a guy to treat them like he treated me. So what gives? That makes it hurt even more. Because other than this he and everything was perfect.

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It sounds like his reaction to stress is to be overwhelmed and run away. It's my first instinct as well (before I pull on my big girl pants and start dealing). So it's possible he felt all the things he was saying, but when he gets stressed he reacts without thinking (hence it coming out of nowhere).